Person of the hour? Not totally… “Women should chase men because they need providers,” replied an unknown guy on Twitter to my comment supporting an argument that women should not chase men. Photo by Sinitta Leunen on Unsplash Woah, hold up. What is happening to men now? I was so relieved when my fellow ladies stood with me. I am aware that men in the first place are the providers because they have been in the earlier centuries, given that they are gentlemen. I will not contest that fact, but I cannot digest the guy’s statement on Twitter that women will always need them, the men. This guy is no gentleman along with the other boys who stick to such a toxic mindset. This is an open letter for all the guys who believe the same and are still mentally existing in the very old times when women are deemed dependent on them. These men assert such ideas because they are threatened by a woman’s innate power. Women can topple feeble-minded men. We, women, are not too vulnerable. We ca
I mean, the exaggerated ones Photo by Nadine Shaabana on Unsplash I came from a private Catholic school where decency, especially elegance is constantly observed and strictly imposed. We were not allowed to wear clothes that reveal slight skin or navel, flamboyant earrings, make-up, and torn jeans. We were trained and always reminded to be simple but elegant at the same time. My classmates hated the proper dress code and taught it hilarious and too formal. I’m fine with the school’s rules and regulations though. It’s no big deal for me so I just followed through, except with sleeveless tops because I also want to show a bit of skin on my shoulders and arms sometimes, sorry. I hate ripped jeans not only as a result of coming from a conservative school but because I also understood the importance of being decent-looking. If others find ripped jeans cool, I find them cheap. I believe anyone can be cool even without conforming to the fashion trend of shabbiness. Personally, elegance we